Child Visitation - How to Divide Time Between Parents
Posted on April 1, 2009
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Child Visitation - How to Divide Time Between Parents
A Family Law Attorney From Southern California Explains Child Visitation
Child Visitation Overview
Issues with child visitation arise out of situations where both legal guardians of the child are no longer acting as a couple. Visitation refers to how the child's time will be divided between both legal guardians. It is usually decided by the court system, especially in cases where each guardian is asking for the same amount of visitation.
What it Means For You
If you are filing for visitation, the best thing to do is contact a lawyer in order to mediate for the maximum amount of child visitation you wish to have. The primary reason for this is that child custody battles tend to be very strenuous and emotional. Alleviating you of the direct confrontation about child custody matters with your ex spouse is a huge relief when dealing with such an emotional issue.
Supervised and Unsupervised Visitation
Supervised visitation is when courts find that the child's well being is compromised be spending time alone with a parent. If this is mandated, it is required that the adult meet with the child while another adult, court employee or private agency is present.
Unsupervised visitation is granted to the parent who does not spend more than half their time with the child. Unsupervised visitation should be highly detailed and planned beforehand to avoid arguments and confusion. The more specific the better.
Common Visitation Schedules
Common visitation schedules leaves the parent with less than half of their time with the child seeing the child every other weekend and alternating holidays. Common variations include a pick up and drop off once during the week by the parent with the least amount of visitation.
Family legal matters can be extremely emotional, frustrating and costly. Because of this, it is important that you get the right informatin BEFORE you take action regarding a divorce, child custody, child support, adoption, or any other important legal matter.
Get the information you need to make an intelligent, informed decision regarding your and/or your children.
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Creating Your Child Custody Schedule - How to Get More Time With Your Child
Posted on March 14, 2009
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Creating Your Child Custody Schedule - How to Get More Time With Your Child
You have to be savvy when it comes time to negotiate a child custody schedule. The child custody schedule that you and your ex agree on will determine the time that you spend with your child until the child is 18 years old. Because you want to have as much time as possible with your child, you have to know the best tactics to maximize your visitation time. One great way to get the most time with your child in the custody schedule is to use holidays to up your visitation time.
Planning ahead is crucial to using holidays to your advantage. It may be useful for you to purchase a child custody software because a good child custody software should allow you to see all of the holidays for the year--and what parent has custody for that holiday. If you don't have the software that can do this for you, you can just go through the calendar and make your own list. Make a list of every holiday and write down whose visitation time the holiday falls under.
For the purpose of illustrating this idea, let's say you and your ex have a visitation schedule set up where you alternate weeks of custody. Both the mother and father have 50% time with the child. Now, let's say the father or mother wants to increase his or her time with the child and you're just about to negotiate holiday visitation time. The first thing to do is to take that list of the holidays and see what holidays do not already fall under your allotted child visitation time. Perhaps you notice that July 4th isn't a time when you already have custody. That's a holiday that you go for. Now, the ex is going to want a holiday too. That's easy enough--go through the list and give a big holiday that already falls under the ex's allotted visitation time. So, the ex gets Easter--which is a nice, big holiday--but you didn't lose any time because the child was already scheduled there.
Continue to do this with the rest of the holiday negotiation. Take the Thanksgiving weekend that is the ex's time, and give President's weekend which is already the ex's custody time. Every time you do this, the percentage of visitation time you have with your child goes up. In one scenario we worked out, the percentage time of the one parent increased by 6%! This is simple to do and can make a big difference with your child custody schedule.
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The Role Of A Child Custody Investigator
Posted on March 10, 2009
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As custody cases become more and more competitive, parents have begun seeking every available opportunity to gain an advantage on their competition. This can involve multiple strategies, with some being more secretive than others. Hiring a child custody investigator is one way to build evidence against the other parent without them knowing. Since custody hearings take a number of different factors into consideration before making a decision, an investigator can influence the perception of the court across many levels.
Contrary to popular belief, child custody investigators are not just private detectives hired by those who can afford their exorbitant fees. The court system also employs investigators to provide them with a better insight into the daily routines and behaviors of both parents. Since the judge is unlikely to witness either parent's activities outside of the court room, it has become more common for the court to assign an independent party to monitor these things. For that reason it is important for anyone facing a custody hearing to become aware of the role that an investigator plays, and how it may affect the outcome of the case.
The goal of an investigator is to measure the tendencies of each parent while interacting with their child. They look for how the parent relates with the child and what activities they participate in while together. Ideally, the parent would offer enriching activities that promote the social and educational growth of their youngster. It is also observed whether or not the child enjoys these activities. Beyond this, the custody investigator is also looking for any signs of physical or mental abuse that may be occurring. Thus, they are making sure the child has a safe and healthy environment in which they can thrive.
Because a child custody investigator is hired to provide evidence to the court system, their work is typically secretive and very thorough. They may utilize many of the same tools and tactics that are commonly found in detective work. Video surveillance, phone tapping, and constant observation are just some of the ways they collect evidence. In a perfect world, their strategies are unbiased and used only to paint an accurate picture of the parental interaction levels. However, in cases where the investigator is hired privately, there is more pressure on them to produce incriminating evidence against the other party. This can be a tough obstacle for the opposition to face, making it important that they identify when they are being watched.
Custody battles have continued to grow more aggressive over recent years. Not only have parents become more willing to experiment with unorthodox tactics to build their cases, but the court system has also grown more stringent in their approach. This combination has left parents on both sides very little room for error. Because of the pressure surrounding these cases, the use of child custody investigators has risen considerably. At one time they were only used by those who afford to hire them privately, but now the courts are beginning to utilize their services as well. Since the evidence provided by them is so heavily weighted by the custody judge, it is vital for parents to recognize the power that an investigator can have over their case.
Approaching Custody Evaluations - 4 Tips For Presenting Your Case For Custody
Posted on March 10, 2009
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Approaching Custody Evaluations - 4 Tips For Presenting Your Case For Custody
During a divorce or separation process, a custody or parenting time evaluation is by nature an invasive and difficult process for both parents, regardless of who requested that it be done. While it is difficult to fathom having a stranger determine the best scenario for your children, if you and your partner cannot agree that both parents are fully fit to have custody, it is a definitive way to get a judgment that protects the best interests of your children. While this is a very trying time emotionally, it is very important for the process of evaluation that you get focused. Such evaluations can take months to complete, so it is important to get it started as soon as it is determined that it is needed. Here are 4 tips for effective presentation of your case for custody:
1. Report the facts. Avoid conjecturing or expanding on times, dates, and events. Stay truthful and do not embellish upon what you know objectively. Avoid being over emotional whenever possible. If you go into each session crying, the evaluator may begin to question your stability. Of course this is a difficult and traumatic time, but you want to stay as rational and focused on your child as possible.
2. Frame your concerns in terms of your perception of the impact or potential impact that your spouse's behavior has on your kids. For example, if you caught your partner doing drugs in your home, explain that you are concerned about your partner using in front of the children, being impaired while responsible for the children, or leaving drugs or drug paraphernalia where your children could find it. If your partner had an affair, express that this activity led to chaos and tension in the home, and this negatively impacted the children. If you feel your partner is abusive toward you personally, however, be sure you tell the evaluator that.
3. Be honest about your own shortcomings. It isn't easy to admit fault, but if you aren't honest, your partner will definitely talk about what you have done to the evaluator, and with his or her spin on it. When you do share this information about yourself, again frame it in terms of the children. Acknowledge that the action could have had, or had an impact on your children and that you will not do it again.
4. Keep the evaluator updated with relevant updates. Again, stick with facts and report in the context of the children's best interests. Email or call the evaluator right away, so that details are fresh in your mind. Report illegal, immoral, or otherwise damaging activities toward your children to the evaluator as soon as possible.
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Child Custody and Child Visitation Disputes: the Best and Worst Case
Posted on March 9, 2009
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When a divorce or dissolution of marriage is brought before the family court, child visitation is considered at the same time and according to similar factors as child custody. The term stands for the time in which the non-custodial parent is allowed to meet or visit with his/her child. However, under certain circumstances a parent can be denied child visitation or child custody in the case of sole physical custody. Child visitation is often associated with the term “parenting plan,” which typically outlines the type of legal custody and physical custody of each parent and can also define when the child is to visit or be with the non-custodial parent. Parents can reach such an agreement on their own, this is the best case, or the court can decide on this matter, which is often the worst case scenario.
Typically, the best situation for a child in a divorce, child custody, and child visitation matter is when both parents manage to solve their personal differences to reach an agreement or parenting plan or child visitation schedule out of court. In this case, any agreements reached between both parents can become the parenting plan. When a parenting plan is created and child visitation and child custody issues are resolved, it may not require anymore matters to be brought to the court even if the child is very young. A decade ago, the family courts would often give infant visitation guidelines preventing the non-custodial parent from spending a lot of time with his/her child. Such provisions are not valid anymore, but rather frequent and continuous contact with both parents is encouraged. Off court agreements does not necessarily need to be translated in a written contract and signed by both parents. However, parents may be well advised to have a written and signed parenting plan for future reference in case a child custody or child visitation dispute arises. It can also be used as a stipulation between both parties and then issued as a court order for future enforcement purposes.
Now, what if the parents are not able to reach an agreement on child visitation or child custody? Both parents will often be required to participate in a mediation process before having a court hearing or before a judge hears the case. Typically, the two parents will be assisted to work out a parenting plan by a third-party or mediator, who can be an experienced attorney or social worker. Many child visitation and child custody issues find a happy ending through mediation sessions resulting in a parenting plan agreement, which can then be presented as a stipulation ad then as a court order.
Generally, the worst case is when mediation fails. In this situation, the next step is typically for a court hearing in order to solve the issues. Judges nowadays often require custody evaluations of the family by experts in the field of child psychiatry, psychology or mental health. Licensed social workers can also be called to present evidence for consideration by the court. Once all pieces of evidence have been presented, the court will typically make its decision. This is the worst case child custody and child visitation dispute method because it can be very complex, expensive, and long-draw out. In some highly contested child custody and child visitation cases, child custody and child visitation disputes will eventually result in denying child custody and child visitation rights to one of the parent.
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