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Getting Child Custody

Posted on January 8, 2008
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There I was in 1992 with a spouse who desparately wanted to be married, have a family, and hated me all at the same time. We had just had our third child, a son, along with his 2 older sisters all in the span of 5 years.As I later realized, every year and a half when we would begin to feel the urge to separate a pregancy would occur and we would be once again rescued from the divorce courts.
You know the line, nothing brings people together like a baby. Only, that line is far from reality. A baby brings temporary joy and additional stress to an already strained relationship.We love our children, as I'm sure you do, but when the day comes that you realize you cannot continue in your current situation your children become, without knowing it, posessions. I know what your thinking, "I would never feel that way about my children". Trust me, you will feel a lot of things before, during, and after your divorce and child custody drama.You'll find its a story worthy of any work of fiction you have ever read or watched in a movie theater. Enough outlandish things will be said about you to make you think they are talking about another person. It doesn't matter what kind of person you really are, only how good your spouse and their attorney are at portraying you. Don't take your eye off the ball, the judges and everyone accociated with the divorce and child custody industry have heard it all before and can usually read between the lines. That doesn't mean mistakes don't happen all the time and children are placed with a parent not in their best interest.Information is the key to a custody battle. Don't expect your attorney to have all the answers. He or she is in a club, the local attorney's club, and it is just like every other club or group you have ever known. Remember when you were in high school and the different groups and how you and everyone wanted to be liked, respected, or at least belong to one of those groups. Attorneys are no different, they want to be part of the group in the community and get along with each other. After all, its only business. The sad thing is, its not "only business" to you and your children. Don't be passive and let the attorneys rack up legal fees keeping you and your spouse fighting.

Arm yourself with information and take control of your future. Your children deserve your best effort and you owe it to yourself to do not only what is right for you and your children but what is best.

Before you waste a lot of money on attorney fees please check out what the 2 leading child custody experts have to say. Dr. Barry Bricklin and Dr. Gail Elliot have developed a great program to assist you. I know because I have custody of my 3 children and as their father, I couldn't have done it without this program. As a male, I had almost no chance of gaining custody of my 3 children unless my wife was considered unfit. She was not unfit so the information was even more valuable to me. Without it I would not be enjoying valuable time with my children as they grow up. I support Dr. Bricklin and Dr. Elliot's program 100% and I know you will too!

Go to Divorced and Penniless to get your program and arm yourself with the best tools to win your custody battle.

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